Saturday, November 28, 2009

My best friend copies everything i do. what should i do?

it's like she's stealing my identity. when i do something, or shop somewhere, or start to like something, she tries to like it more %26amp; like it better. i just stared to like subway and now she acts like she owns the place. whenever i tan [i tan easily] she tries to act like she got 5 shades of color. i just dyed my hair dark dark brown and now she wants to dye hers dark too. shes a natural blond. when i start to like a celebrity or tv show all the sudden shes in love with it. i know that i'm being selfish but shes stealing my identity %26amp; other people are starting to notice too. when i tell her about this she just starts to b!^c# at me. we had world war 3 when i told her she copies me a lot. what should i do? i feel so nonindependent. it's almost like shes my shadow and mime. HELP ME PLEASE?!?!



My best friend copies everything i do. what should i do?

she admires you so much she wants to be like you- you should feel honored. it's hard, i know, because you want to be an induvidual, but you should know it's only because she looks up to you.



when you notice that she's doing something or wearing something different from you, compiment it and her induviuality. she's seeking approval, and if you approve her induvidual choices she's less likely to copy you all the time.



good luck, and have patience- it's not good to lose a friend who admires you so much.



My best friend copies everything i do. what should i do?

Kick her in her buttocks, then watch and laugh as she tries to do the same to herself!!



My best friend copies everything i do. what should i do?

The only thing you can do is to tell her to stop copying you. Tell her you don't like it when she does that and she may stop. She needs to be her own person.



My best friend copies everything i do. what should i do?

DROP THE BITC/H. It sounds like she never was a real friend!



My best friend copies everything i do. what should i do?

Get a new friend, she probably doesn't have her own interest and tries to copy you so she can have her own interest (which are really yours)



People like that know they are doing it,but do it anyways.



Find a new friend you feel comfortable with that can share your interest not take em like it's her own.



My best friend copies everything i do. what should i do?

That is funny. There is no way to stop her. Put it out of your mind and get on with your life. From time to time it will serve as a good joke to observe with your other friends and family members.



My best friend copies everything i do. what should i do?

imitation is a form of flattery



My best friend copies everything i do. what should i do?

i had a friend do that once. she was very insecure. and me and my friends werent very nice about it(we would do stupid things on purpose like make up our own *language* or retarder words that we would use only around her and then she's go and use those words around other people and they'd just look at her weird--ex. isntead of *hey you!* when greeting we'd go " manabanan are u bang?" and she actually went aruond saying that!) it was wrong. but consider what she's doing flattering. she just doesnt know who she is yet, so she wants to be you. or maybe its her way of trying to bond with you?

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